Eurythmics — “Thorn in My Side”: The Bitter Kiss-Off

1986 · Behind the Songs

A poison-pen letter set to one of the catchiest choruses of 1986.

A red rose with water droplets.
A red rose with water droplets — beauty with a sting. Photo: Tj Holowaychuk, Wikimedia Commons, CC0 1.0. Source · CC0. Display resized; no retouching.
Dark red roses in close-up.
Dark red roses in close-up. Photo: Alisa Olaivar, Wikimedia Commons, CC0 1.0. Source · CC0. Display resized; no retouching.

A kiss-off in major key

“Thorn in My Side” was the lead single from Revenge (1986), and it is one of pop’s great poison-pen letters: a farewell to a lover who caused nothing but trouble, delivered with a smile. Lennox sings the bitter lyric over one of the catchiest choruses the duo ever wrote — the musical equivalent of waving goodbye without looking back.

Charts and legacy

The single reached No. 5 in the UK in the autumn of 1986, continuing the duo’s remarkable run of British hits. Revenge went on to become one of their best-selling albums, and “Thorn in My Side” remains a fan favorite — the sound of Eurythmics turning heartbreak into a sing-along.

What to listen for

The tension between the lyric and the music: every line is a complaint, every chorus is a celebration. Listen for the driving beat and the way Lennox’s vocal stays defiant rather than wounded — this is a kiss-off, not a lament.

Listening observations are original Past Tunes interpretation. Photographs reproduced under the reuse terms shown in their captions.

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