That’s the Way Love Goes: Eight Weeks at Number One

Janet Jackson / Behind the Songs

That’s the Way Love Goes: Eight Weeks at Number One

She traded the military uniforms for a whisper, slowed James Brown down to a caress, and owned the entire summer of 1993 — the quietest revolution of her career.

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Janet Jackson performing on stage in 2008
Janet Jackson performing on stage in 2008. “That’s the Way Love Goes” announced a new Janet: softer, slower, and utterly in command. Photo: Andy Liang, Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 2.0. Source.

The record in context

Everything about the spring of 1993 was designed to feel like a beginning. Janet Jackson had left A&M, signed a landmark Virgin contract reported at around $40 million — one of the richest recording deals ever struck at the time — and was preparing her fifth album, pointedly titled janet., period included, as if to say: this is the person, no qualifiers needed. The stakes could hardly have been higher: the contract made her one of the highest-paid recording artists in the world, and the industry was watching to see whether the investment would pay. A safe record — a bigger, shinier Rhythm Nation — would have been the obvious play. What Jackson, Jam and Lewis delivered instead was a left turn so complete that it redefined what a Janet Jackson record could be. The question was what the new Janet would sound like. The old one had spent four years as pop’s conscience and commander, all precision choreography and social testimony. The answer, when it arrived in April 1993 as the album’s lead single, was a genuine shock: not a manifesto, not a dance-floor command, but a slow, smoldering, whisper-soft groove about romantic desire. “That’s the Way Love Goes” didn’t announce the new era with a bang. It announced it with a sigh — and then it refused to leave the top of the charts for two full months.

The song almost didn’t happen, at least not as a single. Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis had built the track around a loop of James Brown’s 1974 funk workout “Papa Don’t Take No Mess” — a woozy, circular guitar lick that Jam, a lifelong Brown devotee, slowed down, thickened and laid over a classic breakbeat borrowed from the Honey Drippers’ “Impeach the President,” the most sampled drum break in hip-hop history. It was an inspired piece of crate-digging: taking a breakbeat every hip-hop producer knew and slowing it to a crawl, so that a sound associated with aggression became the engine of a lullaby. The alchemy of the track is right there — funk, slowed until it turns to silk. But Jackson wasn’t initially sold on the track, and Jam had to get creative: when she asked him to make her a cassette of new tracks to listen to on vacation in Anguilla, he slipped “That’s the Way Love Goes” onto the tape almost as an afterthought. She came back converted. There is a lesson in that anecdote about how hits actually happen: not in boardrooms or marketing meetings, but in the quiet moment when an artist hears something on a beach vacation and feels the future click into place. Jam had trusted his instincts over the data, slipping a track his star was unsure about onto a personal tape, and the instinct proved righter than any focus group. The writing credit — Janet Jackson, James Harris III and Terry Lewis — reflects a true three-way collaboration, and the production, credited to Jackson with Jam and Lewis, shows an artist fully in command of her own reinvention. The military uniforms were gone. In their place: velvet.

What followed was the most dominant chart run of Jackson’s career. Released in April 1993, the single debuted on the Billboard Hot 100 at number 14 — an enormous debut for the era — and just two weeks later, on the chart dated May 15, 1993, it reached number one, days before Jackson’s 27th birthday. It stayed there for eight consecutive weeks, holding the summit through the June 26 chart, a reign that made it one of the longest-running number-one hits of 1993 and the longest-running chart-topper of her entire career. The single remained on the Hot 100 for 23 weeks in total and was certified platinum. It was also a Grammy winner: at the 1994 ceremony, “That’s the Way Love Goes” took home the award for Best R&B Song, with a nomination for Best Female R&B Vocal Performance alongside it. The industry had officially recognized what radio already knew — that the quietest record of the year was also one of the most masterful. It was her second Grammy overall and a vindication of the entire reinvention strategy: the woman who had once needed military choreography to command attention had now done it with little more than a whisper and a bass line.

The single’s success set the template for the entire janet. era, which became one of the defining album campaigns of the decade. The record that followed it out of the gate — “If,” with its rock-edged guitars and futuristic video; “Again,” the ballad that reached number one and earned an Academy Award nomination for Best Original Song from the film Poetic Justice; “Any Time, Any Place,” the slow jam that dominated R&B radio — confirmed that the reinvention was no fluke. Each single explored a different facet of the new persona — desire, heartbreak, independence — and each one was a hit, proving that the audience would follow Jackson wherever the music led. And the video for “That’s the Way Love Goes,” directed by René Elizondo Jr., Jackson’s then-husband, earned multiple MTV Video Music Award nominations including Best Female Video, its intimate house-party atmosphere influencing a generation of R&B clips that followed. Critics who had known Jackson as the voice of social conscience now had to reckon with her as the voice of sensuality — and the eight weeks at number one suggested the public had made the adjustment faster than the press had.

Listen closely

Start with the foundation, because everything in this record grows out of the sample. The loop from James Brown’s “Papa Don’t Take No Mess” is one of the great acts of transmutation in pop production: in Brown’s original it is aggressive, sweaty, all forward motion, but Jam and Lewis slowed it down, filtered it, thickened the bass, and turned that funk into a velvet pillow. Listen to how the guitar lick circles — woozy, hypnotic, never quite resolving — and how the Honey Drippers breakbeat underneath it gives the track its unhurried swing. The tempo is a medium 100 beats per minute, but it feels slower, because nothing in the arrangement is in a hurry. Then Jackson’s voice enters, and it is the softest lead vocal she had ever put on a single: breathy, intimate, pitched low, with a mellow soulfulness that the press at the time called a shocking contrast to everything she had done before. She doesn’t belt a single note. She doesn’t have to. The groove does the seducing; she just narrates it. Listen to the way she phrases against the beat — always slightly behind it, never rushing, letting each line land like a secret. It is a vocal performance built on restraint, and restraint, deployed this precisely, is more commanding than any amount of volume.

Now listen to the chord progression, because its simplicity is the song’s secret. The track cycles through a repeating E-flat major 7 to F6 to G minor progression — essentially three chords, round and round, for the better part of six minutes in the full version — and the genius is in how little changes and how much that little does. The keyboards shimmer over the top, the bass line rolls underneath like a tide, and Jackson’s vocal floats in the space between, doubling herself in places, answering herself in others. There are flourishes of hip-hop in the drum programming and flourishes of classic soul in the keyboard voicings, but the dominant feeling is of something entirely new: a fusion so smooth it doesn’t sound fused at all. Some critics would later call it the first neo-soul record, and while genres are rarely born in a single song, it is hard to argue that nothing else on radio in 1993 sounded quite like this. Listen to the space in the mix: where the Rhythm Nation records were dense and armored, this one is open and unguarded, every element given room to breathe. That openness would become the sonic signature of an entire movement.

Janet Jackson performing in Vancouver, 2008
Janet Jackson performing in Vancouver in 2008. The janet. era proved she could command a stage with a whisper as well as a battle cry. Photo: Andy Liang, Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 2.0. Source.

Then listen to the lyric, which is frank in a way her earlier records never were. This is a song about romantic and physical desire, stated plainly and without apology — “that’s the way love goes” as both observation and invitation. After the coded language of her earlier work, the directness was startling, and it is worth remembering how deliberate that startle was. The Rhythm Nation era had been about the world; janet. was about the self, and this song was its thesis: a woman in full command of her own sensuality, expressing it on her own terms. Listen to how the vocal performance embodies that control. There is no breathlessness, no loss of composure — the desire in the lyric is matched by complete poise in the delivery, and that combination is what makes the record feel powerful rather than merely provocative. She is not asking permission. She is describing the weather. That poise is the through-line of her entire career — from the teenage runaway of Control to the commander of Rhythm Nation to this: a woman who had learned that true power sometimes speaks softly.

Finally, listen for the song’s long afterlife, because “That’s the Way Love Goes” didn’t just dominate a summer — it redrew the map. Its DNA runs through the quiet-storm R&B of the late nineties, the neo-soul movement it helped anticipate, and the work of artists from Alicia Keys to Destiny’s Child who have cited it, sampled it, or simply absorbed its lesson that softness can be a form of strength. Britney Spears and Nelly Furtado have named it as an influence; its structure has been borrowed and its mood has been chased for three decades. And in Jackson’s own catalog, it remains the hinge on which her entire career turned — the moment the most disciplined pop star of her generation proved she could be just as commanding at a whisper as at a shout. Eight weeks at number one. A Grammy. A new genre’s opening paragraph. All from a track that almost didn’t make the cassette. Which may be the most fitting coda of all: the biggest hit of her career, the record that redefined her, the song that still plays like the summer of 1993 distilled — began as an afterthought on a vacation tape. Pop history is full of accidents. This one was eight weeks at number one.

Sources & editorial note

Release and recording reference ↗

Release context is sourced above. Listening observations are Past Tunes’ original interpretation, not quotations from the artist.

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