Commodores — “Three Times a Lady”: A Love Letter to a Mother

1978 · Behind the Songs

Written for Lionel Richie’s parents’ anniversary.

A still-life painting of roses and lilies.
Roses and lilies — a still life for a love song. Painting by Henri Fantin-Latour, Wikimedia Commons, CC0 1.0. Source · CC0. Display resized; no retouching.

Lionel Richie wrote “Three Times a Lady” for his parents’ wedding anniversary, and you can hear the occasion in every line. Released in 1978, the song is a waltz-time ballad of pure gratitude — a son thanking his mother, in public, in front of millions. It is as sincere as popular music gets.

A miniature model of a historic ballroom.
A miniature ballroom — the grand setting the song’s romance deserves. Model by Narcissa Niblack Thorne, Wikimedia Commons, CC0 1.0. Source · CC0. Display resized; no retouching.

The song became the Commodores’ first number one on the pop charts, and it changed the band’s story: they were no longer just a funk band with ballads on the side, but one of the great romantic groups of their era. Decades later, it is still the first dance at countless weddings — a family occasion that became everybody’s.

Listening observations are original Past Tunes interpretation. Photographs reproduced under the reuse terms shown in their captions.

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